hello blog lol .....its been ages i see... frankly, i am getting really lazy thats why i can be bothered to be blogging or i just feel that problems in life aint gonna go away even if i write it all out...i think it just sucks...
problems with my gf... that is totally a different level of misery really... the frustrations you can face are those you can ever believe... before i had one i can never understand what those attached ppl can face...OMG!!! I know... i know what it means to consider the other party's feelings when you do even the slightest thing.... going to a club just to have fun without your other half? OH my HOLY god its a HUGE mistake... you have to even watch what you fucking say and not be so "Insenstive"... its really a chore...no kidding... its like when i am single things werent so complicated at all...its was lonely and when i see couples on the streets it just feels like shit... but now that i am attached for like more than a year and the half i feel that it has came with sacrifices... i wont say i am not happy with my other half but sometimes when i would wanna have fun and go drinking with my friends, she just dont get it... after a few rows of fights just because of this... she sort of like given up...now she says i can go for drinks but not as often... well, i feel its always like that...just the way of her getting used to it...
Cmon...i need my friends...i need to hang out with them... i know what i want...so i wont go around clubs to know girls or to have one night stands.... you know? if i would want those things i wouldnt even consider a relationship...i mean what for? i have tons of chicks to sleep with... lets be real here...guys want sex and sex only.... they just like to cum...lol but girls want only one guy...they are emotional...thats how they work... not that guys dont want a normal relationship but girls dont know when to stop being controlling...
its not like i go clubbing and drinking every night and dont bother about her...told her explaination but she just doesnt get it... if she wants a guy that doesnt drink and wanna have fun with my friends...she might as well find a loser that has no friends or even better a life... so he can be with her all the time and even when she is doing her personal stuff..she can rest assure he is at home doing nothing cos he is just a loser....
I dont know after the last fight and the explaining, i think she kinda gets it... i know she hates to go drinking and staying late sitting at some bar or fancy pub...well, i have tried to bring her along and hopes to let her see the pure fun i am trying to have with my friends... too bad after a few times she cant take it...she just gets reall bored and we will be fighting again... after the demsey road incident...i swore to myself never to bring my gf to any place with drinking and my friends involved...its just such a let down...i have to constantly pay attention to her... if she doesnt drink its worse...but anyway, i have learnt to to mix those two together... its never gonna work...i think unless its with her friends as well... but still i would have to look out for her all night... i m sure something will cock up no matter how well the arrangements are.... girls are trouble at some point of time especially when you least expected it...
so advice to myself... listed with some points i got from the GOD Tom Leykis...a US radio talk show DJ...
1. Never find a gf until you achieved everything in life
2. Never find one when youre like below 30yrs old(for guys)
3. Never set a standard when you are dating her..be an ASSHole
4. Let her know all though you are with her...you have choices...shes not the only one
5. Leave her if she does not want to have SEX with you
6. Never promise her you want to marry her....NEVER, its crap
7. Let her know you have a LIFE and you NEED to be out with your friends
8. Never let her question what you do unless its something illegal...lol just dont do anything unfaithful
9. LEt her know your life doesnt revolve around her
10. wear a condom..always protect yourself
yea thats about it... bottom line never have a serious gf...doesnt benefits the way a man think and work....it jut doesnt...ask your player friends...they will tell you how happy they are...
